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An introduction to:
Kelly Tobey
Founder of:
Integrative
Transformational Processing Facilitation
With over 20 years of facilitation experience Kelly can offer you new insights into ways to dissolve challenges so a fuller potential in your relationship life can be reached!
We are all relational beings with the
exception of the rare few who are inspired to isolate.
So learning tools to enhance relationships
can greatly enhance our lives.
The relationships we have with ourselves, with partners, with friends, with family, and with workmates have both the potential to surface challenges, and to offer joyful connection.
Support is offered to all races, all genders, all sexual orientations including the strait and the LGBTQQIA communities.
Kelly is a person who is clear on his purpose. In short, that purpose has been, and continues to be, recognizing, living and integrating the awareness of the authentic loving harmony within all creation. His purpose in his group and individual sessions is to support others in fulfilling their quest for loving harmony, however that may look for each individual. This is accomplished through drawing from a vast array of methods to create custom-made experiential processes that support an unfolding that is unique to each person or group.
The results of a life devoted to acquiring the necessary ingredients to live out his purpose, has led to an often astounding ability to support others in expanding beyond their perceived issues and problems; to uncover their innate giftedness; and to move more deeply into their own fulfillment.
Kelly is dedicated to bringing balance to the whole of one's being through inspiring the honoring and integrating of one's spiritual, mental, emotional and physical systems.
EVENT LISTINGS
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Kelly
| 1. Abundance | 2. Anger |
| 3. Awareness of Gifts and Talents | 4. Boundary Work |
| 5. Break-ups | 6. Childhood and Adolescence Issues |
| 7. Co-dependency | 8. Communication |
| 9. Conflict Resolution | 10. Couples (any gender mix) |
| 11. Depression | 12. Emotional Healing |
| 13. Empowerment | 14. Facilitation Training |
| 15. Family Crisis | 16. Family of Origin Issues |
| 17. Grief, Loss, and Abandonment | 18. Happiness and Well-being |
| 19. Intimacy Issues | 20. Leadership Skills |
| 21. Life Purpose | 22. Life Transitions |
| 23. Loneliness | 24. Men's Issues |
| 25. Opening Intuition | 26. Opening to Relationship |
| 27. Parenting Teens | 28. Personal Coaching |
| 29. Relationships | 30. Self-esteem |
| 31. Sexuality | 32. Shame Issues |
| 33. Spirituality | 34. Stress |
| 35. Success Counseling | 36. Trauma |
| 37. Violations: Sexual, Physical, Emotional | 38. Vocation |
| 39. Workplace Conflicts | 40. Worthiness |
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The support Kelly offers is extended through the utilization of a wide range of therapeutic and healing arts that he has trained in. Given the particular needs of the client or group he is working with, he may call on methods from any of the following modalities:
| 1. Addictions Counseling | 2. Applied Archetypes |
| 3. Career Counseling | 4. Color Therapy |
| 5. Couples Therapy | 6. Direct Intuitive Guidance |
| 7. Dreamwork | 8. Emotional Release Work |
| 9. Family Systems Work | 10. Gestalt Therapy |
| 11. Grief and Loss Counseling | 12. Hypnosis |
| 13. Inner Child Work | 14. Integrative Body Psychotherapy I.B.P. |
| 15. Life Purpose Coaching | 16. Listening Hands Energy Therapy |
| 17. Massage Work | 18. Men's Work |
| 19. Neurolinguistic Programming N.L.P. | 20. Prosperity Coaching |
| 21. Radiatory Healing | 22. Rebirthing Breathwork |
| 23. Reflexology | 24. Regression Work |
| 25. Sacred Psychology | 26. Sacred Sexuality |
| 27. Shadow Work | 28. Sound Therapy |
| 29. Traditional Psychology | 30. Visualization Therapy |
| 31. Voice Dialogue |
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KELLY ON KELLY
I
will attempt to paint a picture that will touch on some of the aspects of who I
am. I am aware of the limitations of this format given the complexities of who
each of us is but this will at least give you a taste.
I have had a life full of adventures. Some difficult and some filled with ease.
I would not take back a minute of it! It’s been a terrific education and I
have learned lots.
I've learned that things in life happen for a reason and flowing best I can with
the changes while staying aware serves well. All the pieces continue to fall
into place and life gets better and better.
I
live by doing my best to follow some personal guidelines.... being pure of
heart, compassionate and giving, while being strong in knowing and standing for
what is appropriate for me. Being accountable and following through on my
dedications. Staying open to receiving. Giving to others when called to, without
attachment. Reciprocating acts of kindness. Bringing laughter and play into the
lives of others and myself.
Living
with as much integrity as I can access.
Being very grateful for what I have. Enjoying friendships. Respecting
possessions without attaching to them. Doing the work I love. Finding value in
every day.
Being
accepting of other’s non-harming choices in life. Honoring that we are all
unique, and trusting that I will be drawn towards the uniqueness that attracts
me and away from the flavors of uniqueness that do not - while still respecting
others right to choose freely.
Honoring
my own personal flavor of sexuality without prejudice.
Being accepting of the personal non-harming sexual choices of others.
Embracing the passing of time; with age can come much wisdom when I stay awake
to the inherent learnings.
Being
guided by curiosity into seeking out various paths of learning. Looking to
broaden my depth of understanding in my areas of interest.
Learning
from my mistakes without getting lost in guilt or shame. Like everyone else I am
human and I am going to make mistakes along the way. Owning those mistakes,
processing the feelings, forgiving myself, apologizing to whomever was effected,
making restitution, and re-dedicating to loving action in the future.
Remembering that my guidelines are my own. Not being naïve enough to expect
others to live up to my guidelines for life. Others will make their own choices
about what works for them. If needing to make boundaries in order to care for
myself in the face of the choices of others, doing so.
Respecting
all aspects of myself - mind, body, emotions and spirit. At the same time being
willing to take myself lightly and laugh at myself.
Opening
to receive the fullness that each day offers. Rather than waiting for a “good
day” to magically arrive, finding the goodness in each day that shows up.
Knowing the tough and challenging days have value as well as the ones that are
full of ease.
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INTERVIEW OF KELLY: By
Saira
Sabzaali
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By Kelly Tobey
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When asked the question, "What heart experience has changed your life and/or the lives of others" I attempted to think of a particular situation. My mind instead was flooded with a vast multitude of situations. It has been the willingness to learn to sort out the messages of the intuitive heart from the assortment of other messages that come from various inner and outer sources, and then the willingness to follow that heartfelt guidance over and over again, which has radically changed my life in just about every area. Embracing a practice of following heartfelt guidance every day in little decisions as well as big ones has brought me more peace; more joy; a life's vocation that totally aligns with my sense of purpose; a chance to face numerous old wounds and have them healed; and a solid sense of direction. As well, through following my heart, I gain insight into what blocks me from accessing even more heartfelt guidance, and what steps I need to take to clear those blocks.
One of the things my heart has led me to, is having a vocation that is based in teaching others how to access their heart's guidance and how to move through any blocks to hearing that guidance.
If our job is in alignment with our life's path, we may find ourselves teaching what we want to learn about. My work gives me ample opportunity to do just that. Each person not only learns about following their heart's inner knowing, they teach me more and more about how to further develop those skills in myself. This, in turn, leads to passing on to others what they've taught me. And so the circle of wisdom continues to expand.
My life has benefited every single time I've chosen to follow my heart's guidance. That doesn't mean it's always easy. Sometimes my heart asks me to do things that stimulate fear or even terror in me. That is another thing that's so great about the heart's guidance, it isn't influenced and tainted by fear. It simply offers what is most appropriate in any given situation. If I am trying to make a decision from my smaller mind in isolation from my heart, the decision can be greatly influenced by unhealthy fears that live in the smaller mind. My heart's guidance may lead me to face the fear head on. Moving through the fear may be uncomfortable for a while, but the benefits received on the other side of the discomfort are great!
It's so wonderful to experience that heartfelt connection to a Life Force that has everyone's best interests in mind. Not only do I receive great joy from the benefits I get, but also I receive great joy from seeing the benefits those around me receive by following their heart's guidance.
Kelly Tobey's Training
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